Why this works
A short story of the approach, the guardrails, and why it feels safe to use.
Texts are easy to misread
People read messages through their hopes and fears. That is why simple scripts often backfire. Our job is to slow the moment, score what the thread most likely means, and give you language that keeps options open while protecting your time.
Decision support, not a script
We show you the three most probable meanings with confidence levels. You choose what to send. This keeps control with you and lowers the risk of overconfidence. It also makes it easy to step back if the signals do not improve.
Ethics and privacy first
We never contact her. We never impersonate. We delete your data in 14 days by default, or sooner on request. By default we do not train on your data. You can opt in if you want to help improve future replies.
Small team, focused craft
DecodeHerTexts is built by a small team of communication analysts. We work from a growing catalogue of patterns and counterexamples. The aim is not to win every chat. The aim is to help you choose the next safe step with a calm head.