How it works
A clear process you can trust. We define every term here.
The 70, 20, 10 view
Most threads can be read more than one way. We show you the three most probable meanings and how confident we are about each one. The primary read is about 70 percent likely. The next is about 20 percent. The third is about 10 percent. These numbers are a guide. They are there to help you act with eyes open. You decide what to do, and it is possible the real meaning is not in the top three.
Signals we look at
- Timing. Who starts, who replies, and how fast.
- Tone. Words that invite, hedge, or push away.
- Plans. Who suggests plans and who confirms them.
- History. Changes from how she wrote before.
- Friction. Mixed messages and contradictions.
Reply styles
Warm is friendly and open. It keeps the door open without chasing.
Neutral is clear and direct. It moves things forward with simple plans.
Boundary is firm and respectful. It protects your time and reduces testing.
What you receive
A one page PDF. It includes a short context summary, the 70, 20, 10 reads, three reply options, timing notes, a Do and Don't list, a simple walk away rule, any risk flags, and a privacy footer.
Ethics and privacy
We never contact her. We do not impersonate. We delete in 14 days by default, or sooner on request. Your data does not train our systems unless you tick the optional box.