Case examples

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The rain check loop

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Before

She is warm in chat but plans fall through at the last minute.

Reads

Likely juggling, possible low priority, small chance of nerves.

Reply used

Neutral reply that sets one time and a simple confirm window.

Result

A clear yes or a polite no in two messages. No long back and forth.

Late night pings only

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Before

You get messages after 10 pm. Daytime is quiet.

Reads

Casual interest, a test for availability, or boredom.

Reply used

Boundary reply that moves the chat to daytime and offers one plan.

Result

Either it moves to daytime or it fades without drama.

Breadcrumbing after two dates

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Before

Dates are warm. Between dates she replies slowly and avoids plans.

Reads

Mixed interest, calendar pressure, or conflict avoidant.

Reply used

Warm reply that proposes a simple plan and a soft walk away if no plan.

Result

Clear signal within a few messages. You get a yes, or you save time.

Ex re entry

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Before

An ex starts sending friendly check ins with no plan to meet.

Reads

Curiosity, nostalgia, low intent to restart.

Reply used

Neutral reply that sets a plan or closes the loop kindly.

Result

A clean boundary that keeps peace on both sides.

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